Funeral Question about Koreans

by Unknown

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Unknown2007-08-24 19:55:17
I just found out my old mentor/instructor from undergrad passed away. I'll be attending his funeral in the next few days, and I was hoping to get some feed back on what's customary/traditional at a native-korean funeral. Should I bring food for the family, a gift for the deceased, and is there anything that I should be aware of as far as attire? I know its dishonorable to wear white to a japanese funeral. Any input would be great. Thanks.
Daganev2007-08-24 20:16:27
Don't bring strippers... or was that taiwan?
Reiha2007-08-25 00:19:59
I don't know much, although similar to Japanese funerals you send envelopes of money (I think).

Here are a couple of links I found, hopefully this will help until you get a better answer.

This one mentions the money envelope:
http://www.angelfire.com/wa2/cedarbough2/funeral.html
"When the co-founder of my college died, being both old and very important her funeral was a full-on no expenses barred event. First we had to visit the special building in the hospital complex where she had died to bow to her photo on an altar, to give our condolence envelope of money and to have a small meal and a drink in her memory. Everywhere were white flowers, occasionally interspersed with yellow blooms, and the immediate family and close friends spent the two days of this part of the funeral process at the hospital bowing and receiving guests. "

Old and traditional one:
http://www.asianinfo.org/asianinfo/korea/c...neral_rites.htm

I'm sorry about your mentor, Marina. sad.gif
Unknown2007-08-25 01:38:55
QUOTE(Reiha @ Aug 24 2007, 08:19 PM) 435937
I don't know much, although similar to Japanese funerals you send envelopes of money (I think).

Here are a couple of links I found, hopefully this will help until you get a better answer.

This one mentions the money envelope:
http://www.angelfire.com/wa2/cedarbough2/funeral.html
"When the co-founder of my college died, being both old and very important her funeral was a full-on no expenses barred event. First we had to visit the special building in the hospital complex where she had died to bow to her photo on an altar, to give our condolence envelope of money and to have a small meal and a drink in her memory. Everywhere were white flowers, occasionally interspersed with yellow blooms, and the immediate family and close friends spent the two days of this part of the funeral process at the hospital bowing and receiving guests. "

Old and traditional one:
http://www.asianinfo.org/asianinfo/korea/c...neral_rites.htm

I'm sorry about your mentor, Marina. sad.gif


Thank you tremendously for the links. They really helped me understand what to do. Don't want to show up and anger his family, since he was very much a father figure to me.