My deepest sympathies, hehehehe.

How I handle it: "Do I know you? No?" *ignore * Hey, it works. It isn't all that bad when it's someone you know though. Can get downright hilarious at times: like when they propose with a milk bottle because they want you badly... as a brood mare. (You know who you are.)

That's too funny An arranged marriage in the offing?

Yeah.. I think Qin's mother has just gotten to that point you know? She can't handle not being a grandmother when Qin is over a 100. And as the oldest male heir, I have to keep the bloodline going, ect, ect... Makes for some really hilarious and well rped letters back and forth.

"Oh, I just found you the perfect girl dear! Oh, don't worry, she is really cute!"

Next letter- "Uhh... I heard you met with her. So, umm.. Can I expect any kids soon?"

Next letter-" You ungrateful little son! How can put your needs above your mothers? I want kids, pronto."

Next letter-" So what if her face resembles your father's? _I_ find him attractive, surely you can at least do the same!"

It went on and on..

That sounds so like a stereotypical Chinese family! Isn't 100 a little old to be having kids already though? Should be a doddering old great / great-great-grandfather.

Maybe a bit on a female playing a male:

1. Suddenly people are so much more unforgiving / nasty

2. Don't do _anything_ remotely sexual like
or Just don't do it.

Or you will be seen as
or

and will soon be
, , or



Edit: But then, on the plus side, you get far less "Hi, want to cyber?" conversations. And the flip side to this... those that you do get seem more pushy

we're sad like that

No we're not. No one minds Nejii hugging people. Well, I guess that's 'cause Nejii's a furrikin. Ah well.