Depends on what you're into. Some of us literature geeks think good writing is better than sex anyway

And Yrael realised he'd never look at a book without imagining it in swimwear ever again.

*nod* I agree... I found that I actually like the lit more than the real thing... *thought* that doesn't sound how I wanted it to... meh.. maybe I shouldn't explain it and just stop here. But.. you guys get the picture

another thought- It stinks when they use bad grammar and verb usage... and not enough descriptions...

My opinion is that anyone who claims to not like sex is either suffering from a tragic neurological disorder, or simply hasn't had good sex. I mean, the generic term 'sex' covers a huge array of physical techniques, emotional investments, and environmental circumstances.

Bad sex can be traumatizing. Good sex can be mind-blowing (in a good way). But just saying you don't like sex is really saying that you haven't liked the sex you've had.

MUD sex is no different.

There's bad MUD sex and good MUD sex. The bad stuff can be foul and horrendous. The good stuff, both exhilerating and theraputic.

I've used online fantasies to help more than one woman work through some pretty serious emotional issues, as well as to work through some issues of my own. The sex may be fake, but the intimacy and trust it can create are very, very real.

And here's me thinking there should be intimacy and trust before sex, of whatever kind. I don't think there's anything wrong with people who would prefer not to become that deeply involved. Especially that deeply involved with people they only know online when the feelings, real or imagined, can lead to problems in real life.

*nod* plus, MUD sex is a safe alternative to irl sex. Those who practice abstinance(irl), they can have all the MUD sex they want, so long as that's what they want... and that they feel like it's not real enough.

I'm still trying to decide on the who abstinance thing(irl), is it worth it? Should I wait? meh, I feel like a little kid but this is rather a big decision... well... at least for me- I've talked to my dad about it and he doesn't really care what decision I make so long as nothing substancially bad happens. My mom might have another opinion, but I don't want to ask her... so I'm asking you guys. Hope you don't mind.



edit: I know this is off topic, but still, it's not like I'm going to make a new thread to talk about sex... I'll leave that to someone else

scared me for a minute there.. I misread and thought it said mel I was like "mom?!"
... havent seen my parents in months *sniffle*

Specially when you don't know if the person behind is 13 years old or not or if he/she will be able to keep things IC and not get weird OOC feelings or ideas about an IC relationships.

Quoted for truth.

I think I actually -was- 13 when my Achaean husband started pestering me for mudsex. *shiver*

And wow, I've wasted quite a bit of my life on muds.

how old are you now?

Like 14...



EDIT: Or whatever the hell that smiley is

EDIT: Thanks Tsuki!

Well kinda bored so I guess I will post here. We all know Airees and if not then oh well. hes either raiding,killing, or being killed, but anyway. Looking for a wife to RP with no mudsex please kinda creepy. Just want someone I can hang around with and talk too. So if ya wanna try something out can send me a tell or PM...i feel lame posting here...oh well boredom dose strange things

This thread is kind of crazey with 16 pages, but I'll get to the point anyway.

Dysolis is looking for someone to rp with, he is currently Magnagoran, and someone around 64ish, if intrestead just pm me or contact Dysolis in the realms.

and that's in charecter years mind you

Dysolis is actually really sweet, especially so for a Mag (mindless jab ) Go for it ladies!!
love-mimi

thanks mi,

Anytime love, if you were not Taint, I might be interested
love-mimi

oh no , Karrah would kill me.

If you're moving, sentient, female, and in Glomdoring, consider dropping Veyda a line.

Seriously, do we have any unattached women?