What the Nil-- thought I would give this a try (and maybe have even better luck than in-game).

Here it goes...

JANALON N'KYLBAR

Do they count as lovers if there's no lovemaking (mudsex) ?

Nice idea, though she seems to want a mate that's female and close to her age. I'm like twice her age. Though I don't mind that at all, she might.

yeah that's the thing I don't want to leave my family and you don't want leave yours. I wish they would make it so when your married both persons remain active in there respective families, I mean just cause you marry someone that does not make you not part of your family anymore, right?

The Modern world has this all screwed up now, allowing hyphenated names and allowing spouses to keep their maiden names.

I don't think it'd actually need to hyphenated

Kalas Janalon n'Kylbar

Nice ring to it

Let the fruitless search commence.

Mihewi…
-Is a 32 year old Mugwumpi Shadowdancer.
-Is usually aloof or sarcastic, sometimes in a serious way, sometimes in an unintentionally adorable way.
-Hates cows with a fiery passion and desires to smite them all from existence. A cowless Basin is a better Basin.
-Is… a Transcendent Cook. Eats a LOT as a result . Yum. Also has her own cooking cartel.
-Likes teddy bears. Mmm, teddy bears.
-Doesn't care if you think she's fat and will probably turn you into a toad if you bring it up too often.

Potential mates must…
-Be willing to take on the Makiare` family name.
-Be Female.
-Know that I, the player, will NEVER find you, the player, even remotely appealing, so don’t even think about crossing that line.
-Be a member of either Glomdoring or Magnagora, preferably the former.
-Be dedicated to their goals and be at least sort of established within their respective guild/city/commune.
-Not be overly clingy or stalkerish. Been there, done that, made me want to off myself.
-Not mind being with someone who doesn't look like a supermodel.
-Eventually want to adopt.

Oh, and I guess it would have to (only preferably) be someone who doesn’t hate Somaria’s guts, since she’d be your future mother-in-law.

I guess I'll stick in her description just to weed out the ones who want a hot babe: She is a glistening mugwump and stands in an awkward, crooked position, her left leg being noticeably shorter than her right. Her dark gray, somewhat chubby body shimmers and gleams with a slimy sheen. Further betraying her amphibious heritage are her nearly nonexistent nose and the translucent webbing between her fingers. Although the veil she always wears draped over the top of her head does a decent job of covering up her baldness at first, it is still rather obvious to see that she hasn't a single hair to speak of when the flimsy garment is struck by sunlight or angled incorrectly. Her tiny, slanted indigo eyes are set very widely apart from each other, positioned closer to her ears than her nose. They are both heavily ringed and shadowed with a glittery pale pink paint. A small, thin-lipped mouth sits up high on her face underneath the two slits functioning as her nose.