Err, well, I'd be cheating on you, too - like, in a few hours from now. So. Let's be one of those open relationships? You date one other guy, and I'll date like three other guys (I've hit four! I totally want to see if I can do six without each of them finding out about the other!)!!

Man, four is too many, Kalo.

I'm tempted to take bets on how that turns out.

And I've never had a reason to not count high school relationships. I learned from each of them, and made mistakes I'll never make again. Without them, I wouldn't be who I am now.

I was 'engaged' to my highschool sweetheart for 13 years, before I finally wised up and realized the wasn't gonna marry me, and I dumped him. Now i'm with Marcalo irl and the short engagement is way better.

Course, hope it works out for you two, but it's really tough, especially through college, grad-school, etc. which it seems like what you are going to wait for.

It was from the 8th grade and lasted a total of 3 days..

My shortest relationship was 6 months, and that's counting anyone I ever called my girlfriend, back into middle school.

3 is my unlucky number.. It was always 3 days, 3 weeks, or 3 months.. never got to 3 years.

almost 3 years in my current one! getting along for sure

My longest high school relationship lasted about six months in year 11. My boyfriend was in year 12 at the local guys school round the corner from my place (even though he lived a half hour drive away) and in the end we broke up because he was too busy with exams and he said, and I quote "I don't know what you want". Even though we'd been discussing a helluva lot of what we wanted for the past six months.

Well, we also broke up because his parents were ruling his life, and no matter how damn good their (not ravioli, the other one like it) was, thanks, I like planning (or not planning as it may happen) my own life out.


Edit: And the only one I ever wanted to marry (yes, I know you're reading this, boyo, and I'm sure you think I'm insane) dropped me for someone else who is presently doing her best to ruin his life. And that's not to say I've never entertained the thought about others, but I -wanted- to marry this one. Ah well.

And yes, I know I'm only 20, and I have my whole life ahead of me. But whoever said how long that would be? If you find something that's going to last, go for it. There are no guarantees anything will last, even if it is true love, no matter your maturity, widsdom, or lack thereof.

I plan on getting married early next year, primarily for the federal financial aid (you see, I'm 21 and a 'dependent' for financial aid, despite being an independent for taxes...).

G/f and I already consider ourselves married, and are planning our future, etc., and neither of us really cares about the official gig, other than marriage benefits. She's had the big ol' wedding with the catering and the honeymoon, etc., and well, that didn't work out like the fairy tales, and I never cared about a big wedding. So all works out .

My shortest relationship was about 30 minutes until someone better looking walked passed at a party. Yes I was shallow when I was younger. I dumped girls on the phone, I had girls dump girls for me, I had guys ask girls I was dating out so I could pawn them off for a new girl. In fact it got so bad my mom would start telling my girlfriends to dump me because by friday night I would have them replaced.

In regards to the title of the subject. Height isn't an issue. If she is half your height this is a good thing. I will let you figure out the pros to that one. If she is 14 and you are 16, then she is probably more mature than you anyways, so this isn't even a big thing in highschool apart from friends who might make comments about you dating a 9th grader. So really don't let one highschool girl get you down. You are far to young to be holding her sorrow over your head. Have fun while it lasts and date who you want to date when you want to date.

Anyways, I been married, been divorced, have a child, and am far to jaded on the realities of life now to think that I will be in that situation again.

+15 respect for the Gregori.

In regards to the height thing, I must say it was interesting making out with my one dwarf friend.

The Guido has never had a girlfriend.

I don't know whether it is due to my terrible appearange or terrible personality. Quite the predicament.

You're not talking about who I think you're talking about are you? *boggle*

UGHARGHH I didn't need to think about that.

-compose-

Just be glad you didn't say anything on MSN about it.

Shiri: ...
Shiri: *brain broken* =/
Sylphas: She took my controller and wouldn't let me play mario cart until I did
Shiri: O_O
Sylphas: And well, we were both drunk, and she's quite fun, so it didn't take much.
Sylphas: We're trying to get her to become a dominatrix.
Shiri: *dies*
Sylphas : Benefit to being a dwarf: Easier to carry up the stairs when you're drunk.
Shiri: .......>_<
Shiri: So wait, a real dwarf, not just a short person?
Sylphas: Yes.
Sylphas: She was about 3.5, maybe 4 foot tall.
Shiri: X_X

Ok, no honeymoon for Sylphas.

No, Richter, I'm not. The person I'm talking about knows, and I suppose Nymerya knows. That's it, really.