If you can't afford it

by Kaileigh

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Kaileigh2005-10-05 04:51:42
My dog needs a surgey that costs $1300. If she doesn't get it in 6 months my mom wants to put her down.

You know. I sobbed when I thought my favouite fish was dead. I'm sobbing now as I type thing. What am I going to do when that time comes, because it know it will. And my mom wants to put my dog to sleep.

She'll be about 11 when 6 months comes around. that's middle aged for a small dog. It's not fair that because we can't afford it she has to die. And that's not even counting the price to get the growth on her side removed. They haven't called us back about that yet.

And my Mom's telling me all this while she's drunk so she's giggly.

And she said it's "My decision" to put her down. Yeah that's mom. We have to do it but it's going to be my decision? Way to screw over the emotionally unstable girl.
Hajamin2005-10-05 05:10:24
I would suggest you start asking friends for loans/donations. I'm sure most people you know would be willing to give you a few bucks for that purpose. Six months is a while, it's possible.

As an old friend used to say, it's easier to ask 300 people for a dollar than it is to ask one for 300.
Joli2005-10-05 05:15:55
sad.gif That's sad..

Our family cat got attacked by a snake and poisoned a while back and my sister had to be the one to put it to have it put to sleep. She was around 13 years old I think. When pets get that old it is best just to put them to sleep because they will just continue to suffer and there will be more surgeries and illnesses. I honestly think my cat wanted to die, because it hid from us until the wound was so bad it had to be put down.

You need to thump your mom for being drunk when she told you though.. that was a bit much. sad.gif comfort.gif
Unknown2005-10-05 05:31:01
I had something similar happen with my doggy about six months ago. We decided to pay for all the X-rays and tests and initial treatments, all coming to a grand or two, only to find out that she had Arthritis in her spine. We had the option of very expensive spinal surgery, which was risky at best, but we were hardly given the chance to decide. A week after leaving the Vet, she could not stand. About all she could do was lift her head, and even that was a struggle for her I think.

The last time I saw her, she was lying at the foot of our stairs, her head in my lap and her eyes as beautiful and soulful as they ever were. I wish I hadn't gone to work that day and had spent the rest of it with her, making her more comfortable.

I guess what I am trying to get across is this; do all you can to get the money together because every moment with a being you love is precious. Feeling what I do now, I'd pay the cost of the surgery in a heartbeat for the slight chance that Cindy might have survived a while longer.

Now I've gone and made myself cry. Piffle.
Unknown2005-10-05 06:14:48
QUOTE(Quidgyboo @ Oct 5 2005, 12:31 AM)
I had something similar happen with my doggy about six months ago. We decided to pay for all the X-rays and tests and initial treatments, all coming to a grand or two, only to find out that she had Arthritis in her spine. We had the option of very expensive spinal surgery, which was risky at best, but we were hardly given the chance to decide. A week after leaving the Vet, she could not stand. About all she could do was lift her head, and even that was a struggle for her I think.

The last time I saw her, she was lying at the foot of our stairs, her head in my lap and her eyes as beautiful and soulful as they ever were. I wish I hadn't gone to work that day and had spent the rest of it with her, making her more comfortable.

I guess what I am trying to get across is this; do all you can to get the money together because every moment with a being you love is precious. Feeling what I do now, I'd pay the cost of the surgery in a heartbeat for the slight chance that Cindy might have survived a while longer.

Now I've gone and made myself cry. Piffle.
198966



You almost made me cry. I'm going to go have to steal candy from children or something to make myself feel better.

I hope you can manage the money, Kaileigh. With all your Artisinals, we know you're not buying credits. smile.gif Good luck, hun.
Nayl2005-10-05 09:27:40
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Bau2005-10-05 10:18:31
My cousin loved her dog Cindy so much that when Cindy finally died of arthritis and old age, Cindy got stuffed.

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We were so used to seeing Cindy by that point that you'd scare yourself half to death seeing her 'standing' there.
Unknown2005-10-05 10:39:40
QUOTE(Bau @ Oct 5 2005, 08:18 PM)
My cousin loved her dog Cindy so much that when Cindy finally died of arthritis and old age, Cindy got stuffed.

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We were so used to seeing Cindy by that point that you'd scare yourself half to death seeing her 'standing' there.
199210



That would jsut be too much. I still expect to see Cindy wagging her bum and jumping all over me when I walk in the gate in the afternoons.

I planted a nice garden over her grave though. I want to get some native birdies in.
Maelee2005-10-05 17:38:58
This tugs on my heartstrings. I am so very sorry this is happening for you. Just yesterday I took my dog to the vet because she hadn't been feeling well, not eating, drinking, playing, etc. Well, after $400 worth of tests they tell me she is dehydrated, has tape worms, heart worms, kidney problems, and there appears to be something in her digestional track that she got into. It will be at least $1200.00 for the treatments (on top of the $400 tests) so I had to make that same dreaded decision. I had to put her down. It was so hard and even now I try not to cry. She was close to 5, a Rottie, and the runt of her litter. So sweet, loved cats, adored children. I still keep thinking about how right before they came to take her back for her tests she rested her chin on my leg and looked up at me with her sad sick eyes and tried to stick her tongue out to give me a kiss.

One thing I recommend (though I don't know what sort of town you live in) is to make up little donation cups with a picture of the dog and ask like local convenient stores, banks, etc if you can place them there by the cash register. You would be amazed how much even someone's spare change from a soda or a pack of cigarettes could help.
Ashteru2005-10-05 17:45:20
Aye, I somehow know how you feel....
I was at the vet last month because my little baby limped the last few weeks, and he told me he had some rather common hip thing rottweiler have sometimes.
Now my problem is that operations for that things cost really much, easily could come down to 1500 to 2000 euros....and well, if it didn't get better until January, me and my parents'll have to decide if we'll buy an operation for him or if we buy a new dog...

My father, a soldier who already saw some battles cried that night when he was alone...and damn, I cry now too....I saw him when he was just fresh out of his momma...

EDIT: The thing is, if we didn't buy that operation, he probably wouldn't be able to walk anymore...and I'd rather shot him myself than seeing him suffer...
Manjanaia2005-10-05 19:49:49
QUOTE(Quidgyboo @ Oct 5 2005, 05:31 AM)
I had something similar happen with my doggy about six months ago. We decided to pay for all the X-rays and tests and initial treatments, all coming to a grand or two, only to find out that she had Arthritis in her spine. We had the option of very expensive spinal surgery, which was risky at best, but we were hardly given the chance to decide. A week after leaving the Vet, she could not stand. About all she could do was lift her head, and even that was a struggle for her I think.

The last time I saw her, she was lying at the foot of our stairs, her head in my lap and her eyes as beautiful and soulful as they ever were. I wish I hadn't gone to work that day and had spent the rest of it with her, making her more comfortable.

I guess what I am trying to get across is this; do all you can to get the money together because every moment with a being you love is precious. Feeling what I do now, I'd pay the cost of the surgery in a heartbeat for the slight chance that Cindy might have survived a while longer.

Now I've gone and made myself cry. Piffle.
198966



That's so sad sad.gif
Manjanaia2005-10-05 19:51:04
QUOTE(Maelee @ Oct 5 2005, 05:38 PM)
This tugs on my heartstrings.  I am so very sorry this is happening for you.  Just yesterday I took my dog to the vet because she hadn't been feeling well, not eating, drinking, playing, etc.  Well, after $400 worth of tests they tell me she is dehydrated, has tape worms, heart worms, kidney problems, and there appears to be something in her digestional track that she got into.  It will be at least $1200.00 for the treatments (on top of the $400 tests) so I had to make that same dreaded decision.  I had to put her down.  It was so hard and even now I try not to cry.  She was close to 5, a Rottie, and the runt of her litter.  So sweet, loved cats, adored children.  I still keep thinking about how right before they came to take her back for her tests she rested her chin on my leg and looked up at me with her sad sick eyes and tried to stick her tongue out to give me a kiss. 

One thing I recommend (though I don't know what sort of town you live in) is to make up little donation cups with a picture of the dog and ask like local convenient stores, banks, etc if you can place them there by the cash register.  You would be amazed how much even someone's spare change from a soda or a pack of cigarettes could help.
199430



So's that sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif
Yukari2005-10-05 20:33:34
Aww, I'm so sorry! I hope you get the money for your dog. I about started crying reading all of this. I remember when the first two dogs I had died. I grew up with them, as my parents bought them before I was born. They both died within three months of each other, I was 10, it was so sad. crying.gif
Kaileigh2005-10-06 03:00:53
Gah everytime I read this I end up sobbing.

There's really nothing we can do. On top of her back problems she has a Malignant tumor. My mom thinks I don't care because I brushed it off, only because I didn't want to sob in front of her.

She's was my first dog. I mean I know I called her stupid alot but she always seemed to unerstand when i was sad. Like now she looks at me like "What's wrong" an doesn't know that it's her I'm crying about.
Unknown2005-10-06 06:20:12
QUOTE(Kaileigh @ Oct 5 2005, 10:00 PM)
Gah everytime I  read this I end up sobbing.

There's really nothing we can do. On top of her back problems she has a Malignant tumor.  My mom thinks I don't care because I brushed it off, only because I didn't want to sob in front of her.

She's was my first dog.  I mean I know I called her stupid alot but she always seemed to unerstand when i was sad.  Like now she looks at me  like "What's wrong" an doesn't know that it's her I'm crying about.
199727



I think we both know kinna what needs to be done.. It's really sad when you have to let go like this. I remember when my dog died.. He had a kidney failure, which left him laborously suffering for about four days. Finally my parents took him to the vet, and my parents were hoping my brother and I would get home from school before he died, so we could say goodbye - he died relatively painfully.

I always told my parents that I'd rather know he died peacefully and painlessly, than in torment, by some narrow hope I might get to say goodbye.

So, take it from me - say goodbye now. It sounds so horrible to put a dog down.. But, it sounds like she's one of those dogs that will just have another problem after that..

And I don't mean it like, she'll be a burden on you - but she'll just be suffering and suffering. As she's recovering from surgery, they'll be eyeing a malignant tumor. Once that's gone, they'll be eyeing something else..

Iunno hun, my two cents: Save her the pain. It sounds really cruel, but.. iunno. I wouldn't want to suffer like that.
Unknown2005-10-07 10:53:10
My favorite pet ever, Sheba, a black lab, died last November, one month before I could go back home and see her (I live 1000 miles away from parents). I was going to write more but I can't due to crying.
Kaileigh2005-10-07 11:11:26
She's going back in today for x-rays. If the Tumor has spread, because it's just on her side, they'll remove it. We still can't afford the back surgery but if we can keep we from doing things like jumping on the furniture she sould be good for a while.

She doesn't act like anything hurts she still chased the cats around the yard this morning. Hopefully it will turn out better and I will get to keep her longer. But it all depends on today's tests.

But on another note of pet sob stories. My grandparents had a pet chihuahua wasn't more than three pounds. A big yapper. They got him a few years ago after not having a pet for a while. My grandfather loved that dog. A year or so ago he was out in the yard with my grandfather when a rather large husky ran up and grabed him. He die before they got him to the animal hospital less than a mile away. I hate that dog for the most part. He didn't really care for me either. But watching my grandfather cry over than dog. Heartbreaker. Especially since he tackled the big dog and got bitten himslf.
Joli2005-10-07 21:24:40
My mom's yorkie got attacked by my neighbor's huge german shepherd.. and if you know your dogs that is like.. a level 1 newbie fighting Shikari..

Mom took him to the vet today and they think something is wrong with his neck, so she has to take him to this hospital that's like.. 2-3 hours away to see if that is what is wrong.. if so it'll cost over $2,000 to fix. They don't think he'll die, but god.. that's a lot of money.. and if I know my mom she will blame my dog for being the one to run outside first (little dog follows him) and I'll have to get rid of him. sad.gif

Why are pets so freaking expensive to fix?
Bau2005-10-07 22:10:47
Human greed.
Iridiel2005-10-10 10:50:19
And after sobbing in simpathy after reading this thread I've decided I am not going to have cats.
I mean, I had a bad time when my turtle dissapeared sudenly from our backyard. Adn it's an autistic turtle that ignores or hides in her shell if she sees us coming near.
When she came back from sleeping after winter (she had been sleeping inside a cupboard we don't know how did she get into) she didn't ever apologize for hiding without leaving a note.