Okay, Shaeden is married to Daxera and together they created the Falathrim family. since then we adopted Araenielle and unofficially Visaas. Problem comes in that Shaeden thinks his mom is Emilynn Glacielle and hopes his dad is Acrune... (pretty sure). Anyways, is there any way to let Emilynn and Acrune adopt me. and have me remain a Falathrim? I was thinking I could Divorce Daxera, get adopted and remarry... but, would that work? Help!!

I think Daxera has to propose to you after the adoption to get back into your Falathrim family name

Something possibly really messy but would make your name look right would be to not show your family name using the CONFIG stuff and then use the citypriv SUFFIX to make it look the way you wanted. Probably not the best solution in the world, but hey, if you were adopted, your family name really -would- be whatever Acrune's family name is.... so it kinda makes sense, in my opinion, although losing your founded family name does kinda suck.

well, ICly it's supposed to be I met daxera, married, then met Acrune, just as it happened in real life... Was thinking I should divorce, adopt, and re-marry, but that won't srcrew me for keeping Araenielle as my kid, will it?

I'd say it's not exactly the best idea ... I mean, sure, it may not've turned out the way you wanted it, but live with the idea ...

When I found my mom (Leilani), I inveted an IC reason for her to be my mother, because she had an apparently big family (Rae'Fiarel-Hartfire, I wanted to make a greathouse, heh) and a lot of people were named like that. THEN, after she became my mother, I had found out that Razlinn (her husband) was a complete jack-ass (according to her, I never met him, so can't really say) and that she didn't have an actual family at all, the kids were just suffixed like that, not in the family... and yeah, it kinda sucked, but the RP was pretty good, even if the actual greathouse plan was screwed.

Mm, I want Shaeden to be a real Glacielle.... I can't stand the fake titles (Erp, sorry if you read this Visaas, but... I can't!)

Maybe if you issue yourself and explain your situation the admin will take pity on you and change it for you.

Daxera say, "Ug."

Ugh?

It's an Urdu word for 'immense difficulty'.