So I was doing some serious drinking and I was bored so I thought I would see what every one is up to. I've been having a hard time, going through the suicide of a very close woman, who nearly carried my child, and I have been finding it hard to come back, just wondering how everyone was doing and being that I'm a drunk guy, probably on the level of severe alcohol poisoning so forgive if I'm not as coherent as I should be. Any thoughts?

EDIT: IRC people figured we should edit this for you...~Shiri~

Welcome back Dia! ... :/ dont get alcohol poisoning! -grab-

My thought? Alcohol isn't the solution to your problems....
Second thought? It wont change the past...
Third thought? ...Well, maybe not one to say much...But you did ask for thoughts....You could handle this utterly different if you tried.

Don't do anything stupid!

Ok, tad bit too late...don't do anything ELSE too stupid....And I am sorry for your loss.. Take care of yourself.

It's always tough dealing with the loss of a loved one, especially in a manner like suicide. I've never gone through the situation myself, but I've helped a few friends through it as best as I could - Since you aren't anywhere near me to get drunk with, (And you're doing a crazy job of it right now as it seems anyway) all I can really throw at you is advice.


First, you're drunk.. don't do anything stupid, you



Second.. I know it's hard, but you have to always remember that life moves onward.. Sure, remember her, but don't dwell on her loss. Don't drink to forget her, and don't drink to ease the pain. Drink to her as you remembered her in life. In you have to take a shot, take a shot in her honor. When I die, everyone I ever knew had better throw one kickass party. "Oh.. Max died? Time to break out the Tequila." I wouldn't have it any other way, and I don't think this girl would like you being so sad and forlorn, either. Dia, from the little I've spoken with you, I know you'll make it through this okay. I'm sorry I'm not very good for advice, so...
just hang in there bud.

I know it hurts bud...just hang in there, and it will become bearable. She wouldn't want you to follow her through poisoning yourself.

*big bear hug*

Drinking never solves anything, it may give temporary relief but not permanent, and any more drinking would lead you to your death. So my advice is, seek help from your friends whom you trust, try to refrain from drinking for awhile and don't even think of suicide, you'd just end up straight in hell and you'd be in deep **** if went there.

Hey man, Alcohol doesn't solve things, doesn't make feelings go away, it just takes your feelings to the extreme. It's one of the strongest psychoactives known to man and straight up disables you. I recommend a more herbal remedy if you need substance. But do what feels right.

I don't think it would be shamefull or embarrasing if you got a bit if counsellnig at this hard time in your life.