Like they'd really be the only ones in the mob

this guide doesn't tell you what path you take.. pretty much tells you "hey, if you breathe you are going to get some air and... *audible gasp*.. live!"

So yeah.. this is too general, but trust me.. girls like arseholes even to some degree... shopws character and that you have the balls to do something... it's a fact of life that hasn't been proven wrong in my eyes...

To some degree? Pfft, nice guys don't get girls at all

I got a nice guy..so that isnt true.. I think.

I'm a nice guy and I've never ever gotten a girl!

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Plenty of guys though .

you know, since I'm straight, I cannot fathom the way of the homosexuality not only because my mind doesn't allow me to but because I'm afraid of what I could find

So, this guide may or may not apply to gays.

How I'd love to find that Carlos Mencia clip... its just so fitting right now

I'm a nice guy and I got a wonderful woman.

Anyways, I think Narses gave the most sound advice on the thread. Aiwendil's heard me say something similar. If you're trying to "understand women," you've already failed. Sorry. Game over. Women have unique personalities, just like you clueless men do. Try (gasp) talking with them! Interact with them! Spend some time on their terms, and let them spend some time on yours.

LIES!

Youre just upset because two people at least have proven you wrong.

Dating Guidelines: There are none.

You are right, the nice guy is not going to get 'laid' a lot... and that is simply because most nice guys, while it may be on their mind, are not looking for the type of girl that is going to want to, or be willing to do it frequently until a good whle into the relationship.

In asshole gets one type of girl, and one type only. The nice guy also only gets one type. The nice guy gets the girl he is going to spend a life time with, the ass gets maybe a few months at most.

Yes the nice guy may be single for longer periods of time, but when they are in a relationship, it is far better.

So in short, don't be an ass... it may get you laid, but it aint going to get you much else. A good man goes for the womans heart... an ass goes for her zipper.

you just failed to see my point...

Too much water will kill you.. too little will kill you.. everything is about balance... and that's the point of life. I'm a good guy... I'm romantic and when I'm with a girl my eyes and mind are concentrating on that girl.. when it's time to move one I say farewell and move on to the next situation(be it a girl or not)... I'm a good guy, but what got me a girl was my outgoingness and some of the arseholery.. Arseholery contains not only bad things, but good things.. and there's a difference between an ass and an guy with proficient control of his arseholery.. The Arseholery is going to make you appealing.. the lovey dovey's gonna get you the loved one you want..

people need to stop thinking that arseholery(or clownery, jestery or outgoingness) are divorced with romanticism.. in fact, once you convine both elements you get a good boyfriend who's both fun and romantic..

and there it lies the secret for romance...

PS: This is no dating guideline.. this is just a guideline to polish your romanticism and your overall tactics... think of it as Ethelon's System.. not going to save your ass but it's the basics

I read that as "girls are like arseholes". Which is true, actually, but let's not cover that in this thread.

Xavius: Say hi to your woman for me.

What defines a nice guy or an asshole anyway?

I can be any number of things... I have no fondness for people who believe they know everything, who are condescending and argue for the sake of arguing. People who compliment themselves all the time... and that trample others in order to strengthen that image.

There's no single definition. People who seek to be with another only for physical relations is an abuser and exploiter.

No single answer I guess.

toodles peeps.

No no, you're missing the point. It doesn't matter if you're good or bad, just be sure to have lots of money.

I don't have lots of money... I -really- don't... but I have the bestest woman out there

so your point is moot.

She must think you have good money earning potential

No, I don't care about what sort of money he makes. He was in the military, so I know he doesn't get much.

I became interested in him because he was himself. He didn't try to act like someone he's not, and I fell in love with him because he's a wonderful person who my personality clicks with. We get along, we have fun, and sometimes we fight, but when we do, we care about each other enough to work things out.

If a guy or girl wants a girl or guy who truly appreciates them, they need to just be themselves.

The defense rests