My cat I have knowned for about 3 years is about to die sadly, last stages he is 19 years old in human terms. It could be minutes or hours right now, going to go drown myself in the game now. The person I live with now is with Him, she has knowed him since he was 3 weeks old so I think it is more fitting she is with him right now.

I'm sorry, it's never easy losing a kitty

Whoever she is, she is going to have it tough. 19 years with a cat, that cat becomes very important to you, and cats tend to win more attachment then dogs over the long term. I feel for her, I've been there, and enjoy him while you can.